Anyone remember the great 80’s horror flick “Poltergeist”? Well, picture me saying “they’re here” just like that blonde girl in the movie. Creepy, I know… but I just want you to know that’s how I’m “saying” it. And alas, “They’re Here”.
She had her twins. They arrived safe and sound yesterday after 2 1/2 hours of [...]
When I knew I was going to “physically” lose my babies I had no idea what I was going to do with them. I really didn’t. Infact, I thought that I had already passed the babies and then it all became very obvious that I hadn’t.
With one baby in the toilet and another baby and the [...]
R came home the other night after Christmas shopping for the kids. He loves Christmas shopping. I emptied the bags and see he bought little A a baby doll…. wait a minute!! He bought her TWO baby dolls, TWINS! I couldn’t believe it. I asked him, “why on earth did you buy her twins?!”, and [...]
You know when you buy your first car or maybe a shirt you love and then you see it everywhere? I can spot out a 94′ Honda Civic a mile away. Well, I’ve come to realize that this awareness also applies to babyloss. I am seeing twins everywhere!!!
Everyday I drive my children to school and I pass [...]
I haven’t been able to find a whole lot of resources or information for mothers who lose twins to miscarriage or stillbirth. I think there are different aspects that need to be covered when addressing the grief of losing twins. I have found information on specifically twin loss in the sense that the mother has [...]
So a couple of days ago I broke down and phoned medical imaging at the hospital. I needed to have those ultrasound pictures, if it was possible. It was possible and they told me to come get them the following day. The disk costed $10 but I would have paid $100 (or more), it’s absolutley [...]
I found out I was pregnant on June 15th. I had just completed the DONA birth doula training the day before and was absolutely certain that I wanted another baby. I was so excited to see a plus sign, and just one day after I had made the decision that I could have another and [...]
